Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Quick update . . .

Bob has been recovering remarkably; all his vitals are strong, stable. He was kept in cardiac ICU last night, only because no rooms were available in the "regular" hospital, which is where they were going to move him to yesterday. He didn't mind, as he has his own room (no freaky roommates to deal with), it's quiet, and the nurses pop in lickity-split when he calls them (not that they didn't before, but in ICU, they're lightening-speed). We're told that, for now, he'll be back in the primary care of oncology, since his heart is stable, recovering well, and that his cancer treatments take precedence again.

From what I understand, a whole new game plan needs to be devised; he was to have one more stint of the in-patient methotrexate, but his oncologist told me they wouldn't be doing that, that one more treatment, in the grand scheme of things, won't have that big an effect. . . Surgery was supposed to happen on the 19th of April, but that'll be rescheduled, too. Guess it sounds like all kinds of people need to reconvene and re-plan his course of treatment. I have no idea what will happen from here on out . . .

I went to the hospital for a few hours yesterday morning, then to work all day, then back to the hospital to say "good night" to Bob. Nice, quiet evening. He looks good. Handsome, as always, even with wispy hair and tired eyes. Other than an IV tube and the glowing red "ET" light on his finger, no other tubes remain in him. Now that I think about it, I think even the PICC line was removed . . .He has a HUGE bruise on the upper left side of his groin, where they'd inserted the balloon pump, the insertion site that wouldn't quit bleeding . . . when he saw that, he was like, "What the hell is that from?!?" Oh, just another tube that was shoved into you, to keep you alive . . .

I have a lighter work day today; I had taken half the day off, to take Bob to the surgeon consultation, which won't be happening. Nancy, Brian and the girls will stop by the hospital to see Bob again, then head toward Iowa later today, to go to Brian's dad's funeral tomorrow. Rocco will be so sad to see his new bff go . . . Jim and Penny will probably stay until Bob is discharged, not sure when that'll be—tomorrow? Friday?

Not feeling especially creative now, just wanted to give a quick update on my superhero.

3 comments:

  1. Nenni, thanks for the update on your/our superhero, Bob. And to you our hero, get home soon!! I agree with Jen...you looked so very handsome there in of all places the ICU critical heart unit. Don't know how you do it....everything is such a testament to your tenacity and spirit.

    Jen, tell Nancy and Brian and girls safe travel on this very emotional Midwest tour they've been on. Loved those little girls! What QT's and nice little people they are...and such bright lights for all of you in this intense time.

    I'm sure I'll catch up with Penny and Jim soon. There's a cup of coffee on for them anytime in the little apartment near main street America!!

    See you two this weekend when I return to the big city, only a short drive away. Yell if you need anything. And Jen, thanks for the beautiful hair as always...how you can do that when I know your mind is a thousand miles away is just one part of how amazing you are.

    Good wishes you two, good karma, prayers....all that stuff.

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  2. Thanks so much for the update and very happy to hear that Bob is doing so well - he IS "Superman"!
    Thinking of you both
    -Jodi Kramer

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  3. Much love to you and Bob, Nenni. So great to see him Monday night, and just be there by you two. We send our love to you two, his mom and dad, his sister and brother-in-law and the girls (so sorry to hear of Brian's father's passing). I just hope and pray each day for a break for all of you!

    Love you all to the moon and back!
    xoxoxo
    Jill, Jade, and Amelia

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